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Mon, 03/31/2008 - 10:30 — amankus
It is the end of the year and the end is always a great time for reflection. Write a blog of reflection on your first year of Purdue. What have you learned? What were your favorite and least favorite moment? What are somethings you wish you would have done more or less of?
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Lessons learned
Time has just flown by. It seems like yesterday I was moving in to my dorm room and trying to find the perfect place for everything. This has been a great year. I have done some awesome things and met some absolutely amazing people. I love Purdue and highly value my education, but the best part of this year was meeting the group of girls that I now consider some of my best friends. Friends are what make my college experience that much more enjoyable. If I didn’t have friends to hang out with I would hate college. These girls and I do everything together. We eat together, hang out on weekends, study together, and a few of them are even in some of my classes. These girls and I have really gotten to know each other and are there for each other. Anytime my roommate drives me nuts I can just walk down the hall and hang out in one of their rooms. A few of us are evening living together in a house next year.
The other huge highlight of the year was my study abroad trip to Honduras. I would recommend study abroad to anyone. Seeing the way other people live in a different culture changes your life. A few bad things have happened as well. I failed my first test, did not get my 4.0 first semester, lost touch with friends at home, and broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years. The year has been full of good and bad, but I wouldn’t trade the lessons I learned this year for anything.
I really like how you can
I really like how you can focus of both the bad and good and learn lessons from both. Don't worry too much about not getting a 4.0. That may mean you have harded classes than others. College isn't high school, I think that's something that really was driven home this year. As easy as high school was, the free ride has ended. Good luck, though!
Freshmen Year
My first year was great! Right now I am looking back on all of the events that occurred throughout this past year. My favorite moment was meeting my new friends that I have made throughout the year. I wouldn’t trade their friendships for anything! And I can definitely say it has made my first year very memorable! One of the things I regret, but I know that I can’t change is the fact that I chose not to live in a dorm my freshmen year. Instead, I chose to live in an apartment. I would definitely tell all incoming students to live in a dorm their first year. I think I missed out on meeting new people and eating in the famed dining halls. I also regret not driving down to Georgetown, Kentucky to visit my best friend earlier than March when I actually did make it down there to visit her.
I wish that I would have spent more time studying. I also didn’t get my 4.0. I got one B and was one percentage point away from getting an A. That was kind of hard to accept because I was so close to an A. But I know that other things are more important than grades. I think high school prepared me for college in a way, but I also think that sometimes subjects are spoon-fed to high school students.
Overall, I think freshmen year as a nursing student was great! I would not trade it for anything!
happiness
My first year here has been incredible! I have made several really good friends, I've gotten good grades, I've been involved in extra-curricular activities, made my family proud of me, and matured in many ways. I've enjoyed my classes and having hw to do, even though sometimes it is overwhelming. I love that my friends are all close. I love being independent but at the same time, talking to my mom everyday. I got to be in the Purdue Christmas show, which was fantastic and you all should come see it! and also in the Swing Dance Club, which is so much fun! I have learned a great deal my first year and I am so glad I was able to overcome homesickness. I really don't want to go home for the summer! I miss my family and old friends, of course, but i will miss Purdue and my independence and my really good friends here so much! Plus summer will be full of working. But I will be making money to pay for college, which is totally worth it and which I absolutely adore!
Time has flown by...
I really don't know where the time went this year. I can't believe it was just about this time last year when we all were graduating from high school. I think what has made time go by so fast is that I am always busy doing something. Along with the massive amounts of homework I have, I am also actively involved in two clubs--Agronomy and Block and Bridle. We are always doing something with these clubs, whether it is a meeting during the week or functions and fundraisers on the weekends. I think this is one of the best decisions I have made here at Purdue is to become involved in clubs. Yes, it is important for me to get good grades and to study, but I believe the socializing and being active in something is just as important. As our advisor for Block and Bridle always say, "Don't let your education get in the way of your learning", meaning everyone needs to take a break from the books every once in a while and do something hands on. I know I would not be friends with half the people I am if I had not joined these clubs. They have made a huge influence on my time here at Purdue so far. As this year is coming to an end, I am sad to be leaving my friends for the summer, but I know I will see them in a few short months. I can't wait until next year.
*sigh*
actually, a year ago, I still had two and a half months of school left...
anyway, what I've learnt this year...
academically: ...I accidentally made up this rule for myself saying, "I'm not allowed to have fun anymore, must study." *sigh*...it made me rebellious. It turned out that I was better off without the rule. Once I established the rule, I think I did more activities than ever, like maybe a day or two later, I went bowling, had game night with friends, and didn't do any work for a weekend which of course, as usual screwed me over.
Roommate-wise: so I've kind of always generally been detached from people, maybe not detached, but I live in a bubble, and it has a wall which slowly goes down. Well, I had a bit of some other emotional junk going on and I was extremely distant. Eventually, that wall kind of went down a bit, but I'm kind of regretting how much it went down. I think I got a little too attached to my roommate and one or two other people recently. I got bored of my roommate because someone else turned her into a monster, and basically I wish she didn't know so much about me. I think I let my wall down too quickly with her, and then the line between roommate/friend was kind of killed which is when our friendship kind of started to disintegrate.
What else I've learnt, yes, I concur with you. Socializing is important. I wish I had gotten more involved with other activities this year to keep the fun and motivation in my life going. I got completely wrapped up and warped into schoolwork that I forgot about the things I loved and started missing them. I miss dancing, and I miss my viola (although I didn't bring it here, I might in the fall), and I miss my violin, which I've actually been practicing/playing a lot more lately. Thing is, it's kind of hard because my monster roommate is always there with her boy and her other friend who're attached to her pretty much. I used to play my violin pretty much whenever I was angry or upset, yeah, that might sound cliche and all, but it's true, it always sounds the best when I play when I'm angry or upset because I take it out on my fingers in a constructive way. I love the way it sounds and it's like entering a different world. Same with dance. There's a different realm involved because you're just absorbed in the music and in bharatha natyam (indian classical dance) you're completely absorbed in the lyrics and the story of the dance. I love my violin, I've been playing for about ten years, and when I'm in the right mood, it's relieving and it clears the stress away, even if it's only for that while that I'm playing.
Anyway, moral of the story, don't forget to keep doing the things you love to do, even if it's only a little bit each week.
*sigh*
actually, a year ago, I still had two and a half months of school left...
anyway, what I've learnt this year...
academically: ...I accidentally made up this rule for myself saying, "I'm not allowed to have fun anymore, must study." *sigh*...it made me rebellious. It turned out that I was better off without the rule. Once I established the rule, I think I did more activities than ever, like maybe a day or two later, I went bowling, had game night with friends, and didn't do any work for a weekend which of course, as usual screwed me over.
Roommate-wise: so I've kind of always generally been detached from people, maybe not detached, but I live in a bubble, and it has a wall which slowly goes down. Well, I had a bit of some other emotional junk going on and I was extremely distant. Eventually, that wall kind of went down a bit, but I'm kind of regretting how much it went down. I think I got a little too attached to my roommate and one or two other people recently. I got bored of my roommate because someone else turned her into a monster, and basically I wish she didn't know so much about me. I think I let my wall down too quickly with her, and then the line between roommate/friend was kind of killed which is when our friendship kind of started to disintegrate.
What else I've learnt, yes, I concur with you. Socializing is important. I wish I had gotten more involved with other activities this year to keep the fun and motivation in my life going. I got completely wrapped up and warped into schoolwork that I forgot about the things I loved and started missing them. I miss dancing, and I miss my viola (although I didn't bring it here, I might in the fall), and I miss my violin, which I've actually been practicing/playing a lot more lately. Thing is, it's kind of hard because my monster roommate is always there with her boy and her other friend who're attached to her pretty much. I used to play my violin pretty much whenever I was angry or upset, yeah, that might sound cliche and all, but it's true, it always sounds the best when I play when I'm angry or upset because I take it out on my fingers in a constructive way. I love the way it sounds and it's like entering a different world. Same with dance. There's a different realm involved because you're just absorbed in the music and in bharatha natyam (indian classical dance) you're completely absorbed in the lyrics and the story of the dance. I love my violin, I've been playing for about ten years, and when I'm in the right mood, it's relieving and it clears the stress away, even if it's only for that while that I'm playing.
Anyway, moral of the story, don't forget to keep doing the things you love to do, even if it's only a little bit each week.